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September 7, 1999 Meeting "Crisis Intervention"
Deborah Duckworth, MSW, BCSW
Supervisor, Department of Psychiatry & Mental Health

CRISIS:
when one's usual coping mechanisms no longer work and one is overwhelmed and vulnerable;
when there is both danger and opportunity;
when there is a push to resolve the situation and achieve stability

HELPER:
remember whose crisis it is; "don't catch" the person's anxiety, urgency, panic

AVOID:
don't tell someone not to feel ot not to think something "You don't really believe that...You mustn't feel that way"

don't should/shouldn't someone
"You should be glad it was detected early. You shouldn't give up hope."

don't use guilt
"What would your son/daughter/spouse think if s/he heard you say that."

PROCESS:
  1. Focus on feelings. Name them, clarify, validate. No feeling is bad or forbidden.

  2. Ask for details. Don't avoid words like cancer, death, bald...

  3. Listen for what's bothering the person MOST.

  4. Check out the support system/resources. Encoursge use of suppoert.

  5. Give additional resources.

  6. Ask what usually helps/has helped in the past.

  7. Get an action plan - specific, practical plans for that night, tomorrow, now.

SUICIDE:
Ask directly "Are you going to kill yourself?"
Ask how, when, where
Give resources: tell family/friend, contact nurse/doctor, see a social worker, call The Phone (225) 924-3900




A video tape of this presenation is available through The Hope Chests

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